Dear Fran

I am so sorry that you have a recurrence.

I had a rad neck dissection prior to radiation and have healed remarkably well. Parts of the scar cannot be seen unless you look for it. Swelling was reduced by two drains while I was in hospital, stapels (not stitches) were removed surprisingly (to me) quickly, so that when I left hospital I had ceased to look like a member of the Adams family.

May I ask how the recurrence presented itself? Did you notice swelling or pain, or was it routine scan?

I hope the operation goes well for you please let us know how you are progressing. I'll be thinking of you.

Love and light from Helen