Welcome Cat!
There are lots of good people here who will share their experiences and knowledge with you, so bounce away whenever you need to!
There are plenty walking the same road as you, as you'll have discovered from your reading and I'm sure they'll be jumping in soon!

Take care,
Brenda

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!