Before you all discount me as a newb, I tended to my father who died of prostate cancer 1+ years ago.

I set up in care service (she didn't know how to cook an egg)... to changing his sheets and his diapers and coaxing my dad to drink Ensure.

I thought nothing of this duty...as my dad had done the same for me as an infant.

I may not have that favor when I need that kind of care.

Anyone here in San Diego who has noone...how does one help?