I know how you feel im going thru the same thing but im 16 and a male I feel your pain the fear. my doctor told my I just had a throat infection but im still scared its been a week and the infection is still here to make it worse I think I have warts on my tonsil and top Pilates or whatever its called im really sorry about your mom my mom was like your mom always tried to cheer me up in the days I was scared and sad because I thought I had oral cancer I feel for u don't worry I wish I was with u I would help anyway I could please don't be scared mabe its nothing I will pray for you and your family