It looks like fear of the unknown is your biggest problem. The OCF website has lots of stuff to educate you about the disease, it's treatment and getting past the fear it causes. It was written to help turn the unknown into known.

Your husband has cancer, he needs you to be strong right now. It's time to get our of fear mode and into fighting mode. Knowledge is what will lead you there.

He's been on deployments and TDY's before. You had to be strong then, this time is no different.

I know you can do this.

Tony


Tony, 69, non-smoker, aerobatics pilot, bridge player/teacher, avid dancer (ballroom, latin, swing, country)

09/13 SCC, HPV 16, tonsillectomy, T2N0.
11/13 start rads, no chemo
12/13 taste gone, dry mouth,
02/14 hair slowly returning
05/14 taste the same, dry sinuses, irrigation helps.
01/15 food taste about 60% returned, dry sinuses are worse in winter.
12/20 no more sinus problems, taste pretty good