Sending hugs. It is not an easy place to be in as caregiver with the nutrition. I too was at wits end with my husband, but his probs came much later. We finally had a fdg tube inserted the last week of his treatment after loosing over 50 pounds! In the beginning , I would have him come grocery shopping with me to pick out things he believed he would tolerate.he was making up his own smoothies for awhile adding various things, peanut butter or various fruit. Allow him variety and lots of choices. There is a good listing on this site for soft foods which is helpful too,and a good pantry filler...as far as nausea, talk to MD and tell him nausea not well managed. If one drug doesn't work, another will. Rx Zofran was a life saver, great drug for nausea. It's been a couple weeks since your post , how are you
Both doing? Stay on site, great place for support!