I too am saddened beyond belief. What an inspirational man Charm was. He was definitely a role model for me.
I always looked forward to his posts and the very " black and whiteness " of them.
Tom, you will be greatly missed. At peace.
Bev, what a wonderful Wife, Partner,Soulmate, Caregiver, Supporter you have been to Tom. I wish you strength for the coming days, weeks, months to come.
Tammy and Kris.

Caregiver/advocate to Husband Kris age 59@ diagnosis
DX Dec '10 SCC BOT T4aN2bM0 HPV+ve.Cisplatin x3 35 IMRT.
PET 6/11 clear.
R) level 2-4 neck dissection 8/1/11 to remove residual node - necrotic with NED
Feb '12 Ca back.. 3/8/12 total glossectomy/laryngectomy/bilat neck dissection/partial pharyngectomy etc. clear margins. All nodes negative for disease. PEG in.
March 2017 - 5 years disease free. Woohoo!