What you can do to help your brother is speak up for him. Set up his formula for the PEG tube. When I was at my worst, I would skip feedings as it took too much energy to set it up. I would stay in bed and sleep instead of drinking and swallowing. Help him by keeping track of his medications. When a patient is that sick, they need someone to take charge and take care of them as they are unable to do it for themself.

PS... Try to encourage him to swallow sips of water several times per day.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile