I've been thinking about you and Ron also and hoping that "no news was good news". Hopefully you can get Hospice in quickly, they can administer the pain medication Ron needs as well as give you some much needed assistance. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

Aunt diag. 2/4/10 with SCC Stage I/II on left side of tongue. Surgery 2/19/10 part. gloss./neck diss. on left side/free flap from chest muscle. TI/II,NO,MO. Clear margins with perineural invasion. Started rads 4/8/10 - 35 treatments, finished 5/26/10.