Honey I'm so sorry to see what you're going through. I'm glad y'all enjoyed the holidays.
In regards to hospice/nursing care... my 0.02 is to go with nursing home if its an option... the amount of support that he will need is more than anyone should have to take on alone and i found that hospice stopped for a daily visit but didn't spend any real amount of time at the house for him...
Love to you both woman... you know where I am.


CG to my husband, Matt. Dx June 2009 Stage IV Oropharengeal SCC right tonsil primary with distant metastases. Rad to neck- Surgeries to lungs- Every avail chemo - ran out of options Jan 2012, called for hospice help Feb 2012, at rest March 19, 2012.