Aimlee, I am terribly sorry to read your story of your mother. Losing a parent is so difficult, as is any immediate family member's loss. Wishing you can remember all the good times, the happier, healthier times you shared together to help ease your pain. May she now rest in peace, free from all the pain.

Welcome to you, thank you for joining OCF. There are many members who have been thru the loss of a close relative to oral cancer who understand what you endured. I have lost both of my parents many years ago. It is so difficult learning to go on without their presence. I know in time you too will find your way.

Best wishes!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile