dharmacat,

Don't be so hard on the people that have this disease. Everyone reacts differently. Some are stronger that others and some are weaker. I know you are a caretaker and that is so comendable. But you have never heard the words spoken to you directly "You have cancer."

No one ever said that life was going to be easy, and let me tell you I've had a lot of bumps in my road. But the worst for me were those three little words. I have also been a caretaker for over 10 years and I know how hard that is also.

Cancer is not the center of our lives, it is just a nagging voice that is always in the back of your brain, this happens most of the time before one of our many check ups with our many Doctors.

As you will notice, I check this board one or two times a day. I try to offer upbeat advise even on those days that are not so good.

Take care and I wish you and your husband well. Anne.