I know that I am only the caregiver here and sometimes I feel very guilty for getting upset at the cancer. I am not the one that's going through all this. I know that my husband is going through a lot and my heart so much goes out to him. I try to be of any help that I can be. I sometimes feel that I say the wrong things and do the wrong things. He is not one to show emtions but now he is and I am not sure how to deal with all that. I am needing some advice.
Pat


Crgvr to Husband 55-yrs, surgery to remove cyst-diagnosed as SCC, 4/3/09 CT & Pet Scan showed more cancer in left lymph node and primary at the base of the tongue.TX Radiation 7 weeks 5 days a week last day is 6/25/09
Chemo completed 6/19/09
Peg Tube 5/22/09