Sara

Go ahead and walk if you like. OC had an effect on your life also and there are so many of us still struggling with it that would appreciate you walking.

I am sorry that he broke your heart. You were supportive and it is unfair for him to say that you did not do enough. Please do not allow him to make you responsible for his choice to date this other woman or any other woman. That is his choice.

Concentrate on taking care of you and your children. Become happy with yourself and by yourself. As hard as it is forgive him and be civil for the kid's benefit. You have an entire life a head of you.

Patty