DITTO! I was in the same place as your dad also. I remember wanting to quit treatment & telling the doc's so. Somehow they just talked me through. My wife. She sure put up with alot of crap from me during that time. She's an angel & a fighter & would not let me give up. He can do this! Don't give up on him. This is one of the hardest things in life he's probably ever had to go through. Erik


dx 2/11/04 scca bot T3 IU 2B MO poorly differentiated, margins ok, 3/16 modest, jaw split, over half of tongue removed, free flap from left forearm - finished chemo & rad treatment 5/20/04