Thank you for your words, Now I know he is stalling, because he is reminded everyday!! He is also really struggling with the hydrocodones, he is taking way too many of them. I know it has to do with the anxiety, but it is pushing his depression even further. I cant get him to slow down on them. (I do know he has some pain) but not enough pain to be taking 7 or more a day.
Im going out of my mind right now, the tension around here is pretty thick. He says that I need to mind my own business, and I'm pretty sure this is my business. Thanks for all you support!
Jennie


Caregiver to Erik -1st DX 12/22/2005 SCC of Tongue, T3N1M0, hemi-glossectomy,60 nodes removed, carboplatnin,Erbitux, 35Rads.
Reoccurrence T1N0M0 4/14/08-partial glossectomy-16 weeks Erbitux and Taxol-
3rd reoccurrence 5/18/12- partial glossectomy