Thanks Gary. I guess i just really dont know what to do with this information. Iv'e spoke with my dad and he said about the only thing we could do was get a lawyer involved, and that wouldn't bring her back. The rest of my family knows i was supposed to be getting her records. If you were me would you tell them. I was her primary caregiver and everyone else pretty much went about there normal lives. I will never regret putting my life on hold this past year. I guess now i am just afraid if i dont do something with this information i will regret it in the future. I know noone can give me the answers i seek, but if you'll could let me know what you would do in this situation, i would greatly appreciate it. Thanks