I agree with the other posts. Being there for him is the most helpful thing you can do. I know when my sister was struggling and fighting this horrible disease, she said that she didn;t want to see anyone. She even made her friends promise not to visit her in the hospital. Instead they sent cards, letters, anything to let her know that they would be there for her whenever she was ready or in need.

Even though there are times when your friend may not want to talk or be around anyone, letting him know that you are there is the best gift. y sister's fight was horrible, but the abandonment that she experienced from some of our family during this time made it worse.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend.

God Bless.