Sweety,

It is a really hard decision when we try to respond to our loved ones with how we feel. I know my husband responds to my moods and highs & lows - mental & physical. I always hate to tell him how I really feel. He has been such a strong caregiver that I don't want to worry him more that he worries on his own. I understand how you feel.

Other people, I have learned each person. Who really wants to know? And who is just asking because it's the right thing to do. Very few people hear how I really feel at any one point and time. Some really close people on this board, who are kind enough to listen to me vent once and awhile.

Now - see I am rambling. Sorry for that, but you are not feeling any different than many on us have. Vent here anytime I hope it helps.

Dinah