i've been there and i still go there i was diagnosed in 2003 april 8 my BIRTHDAY then i had a recurrance 2004 april 8 agin ....guess what no more dam BIRTHDAYS .......lol iam 30 yrs old

well i now exactly how you feel i watch my fiancee tear up now and again and it feels like theres a hole in my heart that gets bigger and bigger i have so much love for that woman that i can't put it into words if it was not for her i don't know where i would if cancer is the worst thing that happens to me she is definately the best ..believe me angels exist i lay next to one every night

take care god bless hang in there

30yr WM ,2003 dx oral squamous cell ca of tongue had lesion removed on lt side of tongue and 9 nodes 1 node pos. had 36 treat. rad therapy 2004 had lesion growing on lt base of tongue had partial glossectomy with skin flap taken from left arm