Zoe,

You can start by calming down and educating yourself and your husband as much as possible. Knowledge will be one of your most valuable weapons in the months to come and coming to this site is the best thing you could have done and you will quickly learn why.

Help us by telling us more about his type of cancer; what chemo he will receive and it's frequency; and what type and frequency of rad. The more information you share with us the better and once we have a better picture we can respond appropriately.


David

Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.