Dear Jimmy, Shock is an appropriate reaction when you get a diagnosis of cancer. Now what you are gonna need to do is gather all of your forces together and get your plan going! You will get lots of good help here and mountains of support. Please tell us more about you- age, family, where you are going to be treated, what the Docs are telling you, who is going to help you during tx., etc. You can freely ask any question you need to, and I can guarantee that someone will try to answer it. Most important thing right now is to have someone with you for the next Dr. appointments and research the "Getting through It" posts on this site. I know a little about Real Estate Appraisers-- you all are tough cookies! Amy in the Ozarks