Susie, Since I am not a dentist [maybe Jerry will chime in here] I haesitate to say much, but I do know that wisdom teeth can come back to haunt you-cancer or not- have they said why the molars need to go too? As far as questions to ask next Tuesday, my husband would tell you to ask about quality of life issues [risks] associated with the suggested treatment plan, so that you understand what the procedures mean long term. Sometimes those answers are scary, but most times they are manageable-and prepare you both for the road ahead. My advice is to get the overall picture now and then you can deal with the day to day stuff as it happens- and we'll be here. Take some deep breaths - Amy