a friend and I met today and it gave me energy to get through another day. I had a meltdown yesterday and was still recovering today. So tired from juggling my business and hours of driving every day. He's getting on the medical team and my last nerves with his controlling behavior. They set him straight yesterday. i am in a better place now to stand up to him and not tolerating it anymore. HE NEEDS ME. He will learn I'm much stronger and will not put up with it.

The doctor did say at the first appointment that he would still be recovering and not up to par at least another month after treatment. I'm glad I listened as husband thought he could still work full time through all of this!



Spouse of 58 yr old with BOT cancer
Stage 4a HPV16 positive
3 chemo treatments cisplantin
35 radiation treatments 7000 cGy
former smoker/chewed tobacco for 38 yrs.
1/2020 diagnosed with cancer near TMJ
4/2020 chemo 5 days every 2 weeks
6/2020 proton therapy
9/21/2020 cancer free