Cindy and all, I'd like to share something that I will remember the rest of my life. My Mom[at age 82] fell and broke her hip about 11:00 in the evening. She crawled into her bedroom and stayed on the floor until 6:30 the next morning, when she called us. She did not know her hip was broken, just knew something wasn't right. When we asked her why she had not called us the night before, her reply was that we worked hard everyday and we needed our rest. I know she was trying to protect us, but it nearly broke my heart that she had suffered like that all night. I sincerely hope you can manage to be involved in supporting both your parents during your Dad's treatment. Best wishes. Amy