Missyp,

My husband said to me 'I'm making this decision' (about his treatment), and changed his mind twice.

I feel for you. I suggest you find the best alternatives mentioned here, present them to your husband, and let him decide. Be there for him either way and let him feel your support.

Praying for you both,


Patty / husband Dx with Stage 1 SCC
November '12, BOT ulcer
June '13, first biopsy-negative.
October '13, second biopsy-positive
November '13, second opinion at CCC, T1
December '13, partial glossectomy.
September '14, biopsy on lymph nodes, 1 tested positive.
October '14, right side neck dissection. 14 nods out, with only one affected.
November '14, T1N1M0 radiation in the recommended by oncologist
December '14, radiation treatment