well today we found out that chemo is no longer recommended and surgery is no longer possible and we received an offer to ask hospice to help us. My hubby has had 7 surgeries and 5 rounds of chemo. He still is up and about, tires easily etc. So What now?

Caregiver to husband 53 SCC stage 3 soft palate 2011 Rad, recurrence tongue stage 4 2012 induction chemo, partial glossectomy surgery, cancer back left rad neck dissection 2013, more chemo, allergic to erbitux, cancer back 2014 floor of mouth and jaw, mandibulectomy scheduled 3/5/2014