I would suggest you gauge and or push for sooner based on your husband's pain level. My husband waited 30 days for his mandibulectomy surgery and the last week and half was very painful for him. If he's not in pain, have as much fun as he can and wait it out. If he's in alot of pain, then the sooner the better


Caregiver to husband 53 SCC stage 3 soft palate 2011 Rad, recurrence tongue stage 4 2012 induction chemo, partial glossectomy surgery, cancer back left rad neck dissection 2013, more chemo, allergic to erbitux, cancer back 2014 floor of mouth and jaw, mandibulectomy scheduled 3/5/2014