Thank you guys, I called my oral surgeon who is the only doctor I have seen since being diagnosed. I do not have an ENT because I am now on medicaid till 3 months after baby is born and have to get refferals and such to see one, I am working on that one now. He had me come in this am and measured it, it is a lymph node and is about 1 cm by 1.5 cm. He said we will just wait and see, I go back March 5th and if its still enlarged he said they will remove it and run a pathology. Argh!!! I hate the wait and see game.

DX with MEC salivary gland 8/20/2013 age 27 F 9 weeks pregnant
Jessica, Mother to a 4 and 9 year old
11/18/2013 surgery to removed tumor, including bilateral jaw muscle. 2nd Trimester.
12/2/2013 results came back for clear margins