Hon, you'll know. It will be very hard to care for him and he'll likely have a lot of pain. Hospice will help manage this. Liza a former member went into hospice when the pain became too bad. She asked to be sedated most of the time. Hugs - I am sorry this has progressed so quickly, we are here to listen and help if need be. Hugs

Last edited by Cheryld; 12-12-2013 10:40 PM.

Cheryl : Irritation - 2004 BX: 6/2008 : Inflam. BX: 12/10, DX: 12/10 : SCC - LS tongue well dif. T2N1M0. 2/11 hemigloss + recon. : PND - 40 nodes - 39 clear. 3/11 - 5/11 IMRT 33 + cis x2, PEG 3/28/11 - 5/19/11 3 head, 2 chest scans - clear(fingers crossed) HPV-, No smoke, drink, or drugs, Vegan