Hi all,
my dad has Bot Stg4 and starts radio/chemo on Monday. He is in Australia and my sister and I both live abroad. We're going over there in a couple of weeks even though he continues to maintain that he wants no visitors. I'm family, not a visitor, so I intend to be there for at least some of the treatment. Anyhow, I suspect its his girlfriend who doesn't want us there, not him.
So, my question: any hints on how I can be most useful and least bothersome when I'm there? What sort of stuff do people like/hate when in treatment? Would he like books? audio books? photo album? music?
I guess the worst that can happen is that I really make him angry and I have to leave.
Thanks for any suggestions.
Deborah