Hi Leigh, I agree with Z about the biopsy. I will say that the waiting is not over. It's usually couple days til tou learn biopsy results and the waiting is seriously stressful. Then, if (and that's a big IF) the biopsy says it's cancer, then the waiting has really just begun. Sorry, not trying to discourage you (many of us have been through this and as you can see by posts on this forum, come out of it with some lingering problems but still here) but waiting for decisions to be made on course of tx etc. can be maddening. Good luck and stay strong, crying is not a sign of weakness.

David R. 65 yr old male non-smoker, light drinker, stage 3 or 4, depending on which doc you ask, scc rt. tonsil, 2 nodes, 7 weeks radiation and chemo. No surgery. Teatment ended 3/20/08. PET scan 8/08 showed no cancer.
And now, as of oct, 2010, caregiver to wife, Linda, with breast cancer.
May, 2013, Linda diagnosed with stage 3 ovarian cancer. Enuf already.