This is so nice. The hardest thing to ask for help for me was those little odd jobs around the house that Jim handled. Loose this, leaky that, etc. The things that can be let go. My house was unorganized mess, I'd just shove things anywhere out of the way to keep his area comfortable. It's hard to ask for help with that. My sister also helped with organizing bills, making sure insurance paid as it needed to be and even fighting those battles for me. That was a huge load.