Thanks so much everyone for your help. Here is where I am, I went to the ent, he felt the lump an said mandibular tori, the face swelling and jaw pain is tmj, tounge and neck pain is residual nerves flaming. I so hope that is the case but I said why not do a biopsy, he feels there is no reason and it would just cause more pain. He said if it hurt to the touch he would be more skeptical. Its about 3mm. So I get adamant that I want a biopsy, he then says he would like me to see an oral surgeon that they deal with and if he thinks I need one he would do it, he cant see me til monday. I asked why not just do the biopsy and he said he would like this guys opinion.
So Im looking for some suggestions. I so really want to believe this doctor, I think I am going to call my primary and ask her thoughts. I tried calling mayo they have not gotten back to me, they are usuall so far out not sure what to do.
Thanks for listening

Dave