Joy,
So in my thoughts!
Quality of life is everything for me--I really thought I would be dead by May, wondered whether it was worth planting summer plants--did and enjoyed a season at my caravan which I didn't think I would!
Now just done transatlantic trip to see my 'best-beloved' daughter.
Treatment so far has been 'good to me'--I've managed and thin hair, some mild nausea and a lot of tiredness have been the worst--peanunts compared with what others have endured!
Just go with 'whatever' you, your dad, and the docs reckon will work for you all!

Love3 Bren x

Brenda in UK--Diagnosis 30/5/07--undifferentiated carcinoma in right jawbone and muscles. Stage 4
6/7/07--new diagnosis primary is in lung. Finished 4cycles of palliative carboplatin/gemcitabine
therapy September 07
Now dying to live!