I guess I am another statistic of after cancer issues. I am an 8 1/2 year survivor of tonsil, 9 month survivor of breast but the marriage didn't make it. Many stresses trying to deal with the above, keeping up with work for that insurance, keeping the fear away for myself and my kids, etc, etc. It is hard to have the energy left to work on a marriage when his affairs keep popping up. Sometimes life is just so darn hard! I think I should go back to where I had treatment and suggest a Match.com for cancer survivors! Wouldn't it be nice to find someone who understands that every day should be treated like a gift and the best hope in the world is just a day when you can keep the fear away. Give someone you love a hug. - Kris