Options (More surgery, Take Drugs or Do nothing) - 06-13-2008 03:22 AM
Hello All,
I am so glad to find the listserv. I would love to hear your thoughts about mom�s situation.
In September 2007, my mom was diagnosed with mouth cancer. It was described as tumor on the jaw bone. In October, she had a partial segmentation of her mandible. In January 2008, she had 32 rounds of radiation. Two weeks ago, we found out the cancer had returned (or really never left). It�s in her jaw bone.
At this point, the doctors have presented her with two options:
1) Have an extensive surgery to remove the right half of her jaw bone. They will replace the tissue with healthy tissue from another part of the body. It will be disfiguring. The fact that she has endured radiation in the area may hinder her ability to heal. Her Oncologist is pushing for this option;
2) Go through a course of Erbitax or some form of Chemo. Her Oncologist keeps emphasizing that neither one of these will �cure� the cancer. The goal would be to slow the growth down. However, he is not too keen on putting her through a course of chemo because of her previous reaction to chemo.
In addition, my mom has other major health issues. She has breast cancer which is a completely different kind of cancer. She�s lived with the reoccurrence of the breast cancer for the last four years. My mom has lost the use of her hand due to the surgery related to her breast cancer. To top it all off, she also has epilepsy.
Right now, she is on a heavy regiment medication for all of these conditions and the pain associated with them. To top it off, her mouth is sore, has a fugal infection and white spots on her tongue that looks like blisters.
My feelings about which options she should take shifts from hour to hour. I also wonder what happens if she does nothing.
I would like to hear your thoughts about or experiences with any of these options.
Scared and tired,
Les
PS: Mom is 73 years old.
I am so glad to find the listserv. I would love to hear your thoughts about mom�s situation.
In September 2007, my mom was diagnosed with mouth cancer. It was described as tumor on the jaw bone. In October, she had a partial segmentation of her mandible. In January 2008, she had 32 rounds of radiation. Two weeks ago, we found out the cancer had returned (or really never left). It�s in her jaw bone.
At this point, the doctors have presented her with two options:
1) Have an extensive surgery to remove the right half of her jaw bone. They will replace the tissue with healthy tissue from another part of the body. It will be disfiguring. The fact that she has endured radiation in the area may hinder her ability to heal. Her Oncologist is pushing for this option;
2) Go through a course of Erbitax or some form of Chemo. Her Oncologist keeps emphasizing that neither one of these will �cure� the cancer. The goal would be to slow the growth down. However, he is not too keen on putting her through a course of chemo because of her previous reaction to chemo.
In addition, my mom has other major health issues. She has breast cancer which is a completely different kind of cancer. She�s lived with the reoccurrence of the breast cancer for the last four years. My mom has lost the use of her hand due to the surgery related to her breast cancer. To top it all off, she also has epilepsy.
Right now, she is on a heavy regiment medication for all of these conditions and the pain associated with them. To top it off, her mouth is sore, has a fugal infection and white spots on her tongue that looks like blisters.
My feelings about which options she should take shifts from hour to hour. I also wonder what happens if she does nothing.
I would like to hear your thoughts about or experiences with any of these options.
Scared and tired,
Les
PS: Mom is 73 years old.