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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Sounds like fantastic news.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,004 | Hi Angie,
I'm SO happy that you got some good news. That is just wonderful.
About your feelings, what you are feeling is normal, please do not beat yourself up over what you are going through. Cancer is hard on the patient and the family. Especially the spouse. I am almost happy to be the patient. I think the caregivers have it worse.
Also, when I was diagnosed and 2 years after I didn't let myself feel anything. I didn't really talk about it and I NEVER said cancer. I always said "when everything happened to my tongue" finally I had a panic attack and that was no fun. The point of my long story is...feel what you need to feel and talk about it. It is healthy and good. That is what we are here for. Feel free to send me a PM any time to vent!!
xoxo
Suzanne
Suzanne
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T1 SCC on right side of tongue
Age 31...27 when diagnosed
4 partial glossectomies
No chemo or radiation
Biopsy on 2/2/10-Clear
Surgery needed again...no later than April 2011
Loving life and just became a mother on 11/25/10
It's not what we CAN'T do..it's what we CAN do:)
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | Angie I really admire you for your courage. The one I got divorced for ran like a rabbit and has never looked back, She would in no way believe that the cancer works on the mind of the one that has it. Oh no, I was just mean . But whenever I asked how was I mean, the only answer I got was that I was just mean is all. Mean isn't in this body at anytime.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 216 | My husband has never had mean in his body either but with this disease the anxiety has a real hold on him which translates into, maybe not mean, but the worst case of PMS a man ever had! yee haw! The antidepressant and antianxiety meds for him have helped - the antianxiety med for me has controlled my own smart mouth  This is not a pretty scenario for anyone but if you just keep putting one foot in front of the other it's doable. One day at a time....
CG to H with SCC BOT T4N2cM0 dx 12/19/08, teeth removed pre-tx; Erbitux & RT-done 3/12/09, PEG 2/9/09-7/14/09; ND 6/16. Pet 6/12-no mets except lymph node in neck removed on 6/16. Chyle leak,2nd surg to repair. Dilate esophagus 4/15/10. Clear PET 12/17/10
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 10,507 Likes: 7 | Angie
This is the place not just for medical info, but also for support. As a caregiver its a difficult job that you have. On top of that, you are balancing young children and working. Thats alot going on right now for you. Glad that the doc reports have positive news. Remember, we are here not just for your husband, for you too.
ChristineSCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44 2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07 -65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr Clear PET 1/08 4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I surg 4/16/08 clr marg 215 HBO dives 3/09 teeth out, trismus 7/2/09 recur, Stg IV 8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy 3wks medicly inducd coma 2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit PICC line IV antibx 8 mo 10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg OC 3x in 3 years very happy to be alive | | | | | Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,082 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts)
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,082 | Angie
let's not sugar coat this. the answer is YES, this is it and IT SUCKS. Let yourself be angry, CRY to yourself. I stayed "tough" the whole first time round but recurrence is a total bitch. Hope is all there is left
65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Passed away 4-29-13
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 5,260 | I am laughing. No one but you ladies can express your feelings like you do. I hope most of the female population never changes. I luv all of you ladies. You guys too but I'll sure deny I said it.
Since posting this. UPMC, Pittsburgh, Oct 2011 until Jan. I averaged about 2 to 3 surgeries a week there. w Can't have jaw made as bone is deteroriating steaily that is left in jaw. Mersa is to blame. Feeding tube . Had trach for 4mos. Got it out April.
--- Passed away 5/14/14, will be greatly missed by everyone here
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