Last week my dad was diagnosed w/ oral cancer, which has spread to lymph nodes. He lives in Michigan and I live in Illinois. I went to Mich. for the biopsies and stayed until we met w/ the ENT again. It was 10 days and I had to come back to my family. My sister lives in Ohio, 3 hours away, so she is going back w/ him to the Oncologist and Radiologist this week.

I am having a hard time dealing w/ not being there. Anybody else who has gone through this and can offer advice.

I have 3 small children. I took my 3 yo w/ me last time, but the other two are in school.

Thanks again, Tabitha