#47504 11-24-2006 02:14 PM | Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Member | OP Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 | a month ago i awoke from surgery without a tongue,before sugery i was told that i may lose part of my tongue,which was fine with me.if i had been given a choice i would of preferred to remain intact,(i was functioning fine i could eat,taste talk the only medication i needed was a few codine or oxycontin a day).and go into hospice when necessary,i was stageIV.i still am in shock over what happened.i live alone in the middle of nowhere and can barely function without speaking.a few weeks ago they gave me a plug on the end of my tube so i can utter words,but many are incomprehensible. i can't swallow,i gag when rinsing and have feeding tube since operation 10/18.according to the surgeon the cancer was so large that they took muscle from stomach instead of arm with artery,which i guess would of helped me to swallow.i don't know what else to say, the only relief i get is from pain med.they cut the artery in my shoulder which they said they wouldn't and told me trache would be out in a few days,it's been five weeks now since rad.neck dissection.i can breathe thru my nose.some of the stitches in my lip are still in and have become infected.
lyle.4
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#47505 11-24-2006 06:32 PM | Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 493 Platinum Member (300+ posts) | Platinum Member (300+ posts) Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 493 | Lyle.4
Have you talked to your Dr about speech/swallow therapy? How often do you see your Dr? You have some real issues here that they should be working on for you. You are your own best advocate, stay on top of your Drs. Does anyone like a nurse come visit you?
I know you've been through a lot already, but you need to hang in there and your body will heal in time. My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight.
Tim Stoj 60 yr old. Dx Jun 06 with BOT Stage IV. Neck dissesction on 19 Jun 06. Started Tx on 21 Aug 06/completed 33 IMRTs and 3 CT (2 Cisplat & 1 Carboplat) on 5 Oct 06.
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#47506 11-25-2006 01:45 AM | Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | Hi Lyle,
I remember you from before. You were considering consulting with my ENT I think. Where did you end up being treated? Whereever it is, you need to speech and swallowing therapy and also maybe some connection to social services in your area that can help you considering you are barely able to speak right now. You may need to kick up a little bit of fuss to get those things to happen if you weren't treated at a CCC and are "in the middle of nowhere". I assume you are going back to the doc since the stitches have become infected? Make a fuss then about the other things you need,
I assume they removed your tongue because they thought you had a real chance of surviving the cancer if they did that, and I can imagine the mixed feelings you must have about survival with as many quality of life issues as that creates. But if you can get some speech and swallowing therapy and some support in your life (it wouldn;t hurt to talk to a counselor who has experience counsleing cancer patients dealing with these issues as well), you might wake up one morning and realize life is still sweet.
I don't know how close you are to me, but feel free to send me a private message if you were treated nearby and maybe I can help somehow.
Nelie
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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#47507 11-25-2006 03:43 AM | Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Member | OP Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 | thank you for your replies,yes, nelie we have the same doctor he suggested n.y. or buffalo,i have an app't for tuesday and a swallowing test,and i hope he will remove stitches,i've been taking antibiotics.i have a visiting nurse that comes once a week.one thing i have learned the hard way is never go to a teaching hospital,every morning they'd prop me up for the new crop of students to gawk at.i will take your advice,thanks again.
lyle.4
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#47508 11-25-2006 09:11 AM | Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | So you were treated at a teaching hospital? I assume then that my ENT didn't do the surgery and you went to Buffalo? Where do you have the appt. Tuesday?
Nelie
(being gawked at during rounds is one of the hazards of being in a good hospital--almost all of which are teaching hospitals--but I can understand how hard that must have been when the surgery was so much more drastic than you expected)
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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#47509 11-25-2006 09:22 AM | Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | Lyle, Are you having radiation after the surgery?
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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#47510 11-25-2006 12:53 PM | Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 Member | OP Member Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 16 | hi and thanks for your interest,i went to n.y.c. for surgery,i'd be more specific but i don't want to get into trouble.i wish i'd gone to buffalo the doctor there was much more realistic in his assessment.he told me i may be eating thru a tube for as long as six months,the doctor in n.y.,given the same test results said i should be eating in two weeks,so of course i took the easy way out.which turned into the shock of my life.i had previous radiation twice, a total around7500units,so no rad. or chemo was suggested.thank you tim stoj for your prayer.
lyle.4
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#47511 11-26-2006 12:25 AM | Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | So do you go back to the place in NYC for follow-up or is the follow-up local? It sounds like you have really been fighting quite the battle with this disease. I will keep you in my thoughts. Keep fighting the good fight!
Nelie
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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#47512 11-26-2006 07:43 AM | Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,116 Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) | Patient Advocate (1000+ posts) Joined: Jan 2004 Posts: 1,116 | Lyle, I too am praying for you. oh my I wish I lived closer to you so I could help. Carol
Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10 ---update passed away 8-27-11---
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#47513 11-26-2006 08:42 AM | Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 493 Platinum Member (300+ posts) | Platinum Member (300+ posts) Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 493 | Lyle,
You are more than welcome. Is this your 3rd go round with this monster? I ask because you say you had rad twice before.
Keep fighting and I'll keep praying for you.
Tim Stoj 60 yr old. Dx Jun 06 with BOT Stage IV. Neck dissesction on 19 Jun 06. Started Tx on 21 Aug 06/completed 33 IMRTs and 3 CT (2 Cisplat & 1 Carboplat) on 5 Oct 06.
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