Have eventually moved from 'Introduce Yourself' after several months. My sister, Lesley, was diagnosed with inoperable throat cancer last March and all that the doctors could offer was 20 days of radiotherapy - then palliative care. She has been in and out of a local hospice over the past few months, mainly when problems arise with her medication.
However, she was taken in ten days ago suffering from a bad infection in the throat/jaw area. The infected area just seemed to erupt and 'wept' uncontrollably (on the outside) for several days. We are now told that she has an actual hole through the cheek which is unlikely to heal itself - we guess as the tumour is continually pushing onwards and outwards. She didn't really manage to eat much before (gets a nightly 'feed' through her PEG) but she does like to drink milk & coffee, and to try to eat soft, mushy food. But everything she drinks now just comes straight out the other side of her cheek. The doctors have told her she cannot eat anything until they have managed to 'plug' the hole - but they seem to be having difficulty in getting something to stick, due to its position (low down on the jaw line). They fitted on some sort of rubbery-looking plaster today, then stuck a large, padded plaster over that, but within an hour or so, the whole lot was soaked - and hanging off. The doctor has gone off to try something else but said he might not be back to see Lesley for several days. She is trying so hard to be brave, but this is just another problem that she doesn't need right now. So, I was just wondering if anyone else had experience of this happening - and if so, how was the problem managed.

Shelagh- one of John's tumors opened up the outside of his jaw also.[ you could see from outside to inside his mouth] However, since everything he ate or drank was by peg, we didn't have the same issues youall are having. I hope your sister is well medicated and that everyone who is important to her is getting to spend time with her. From this point on, your family will have to be very strong and "together". My main goal during John's last weeks was to keep him pain free and be with him. Amy in the Ozarks

Hello Shelagh. I have no experience with your sister's situation but I hope you will allow me to put you, your sister and the rest of your family on my prayer list. I really hope the dr.s find a solution to your sisters dilemna. It seems it would really help her to be more comfy. You are in my prayers. Lee

After battling for 16 months, my dear sister passed away yesterday morning. She had been admitted to the general hospital three weeks ago after a fall and was then taken to the hospice a week ago, where her condition quickly deteriorated. She battled to the end and I admire her so for her strength and bravery.

I also have the greatest respect for every one of you fighting this disease - and I can't begin to imagine the daily battles you all have to get through.
You are all stars.

Dear Shelagh, I know you are very sad, but I am glad she is no longer suffering. Amy in the Ozarks

Dear Shelagh,

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

God Bless,

Margaret

Shelagh
I was so sorry to read your post about Lesley.
Thinking of you.
Marica

So sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers.

LJ

Shelagh, I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember your earlier posts and it was obviously a long hard fight for your sister. I'm sure having your support is part of helped her stay brave. Nelie

Shelagh,
My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your sister.

Eileen