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Joined: May 2009 Posts: 1,412 | I know how this happened, but I am scared to death. I just found out that we are expecting baby #3. I am scared that this cancer stuff is coming back. All this ear pain and mouth pain has me worried to death. My psychologist told me to stick to the facts, which were clear PET and my ENT did not see anything at my last visit, but I am still scared to death. Please everyone tell me it is going to be okay. I really want it to be, I did not want this right now. I was going to wait and I tried to time the deed so we would not get pregnant. UGH. Just needed to vent.
Angelia
31 at Dx.
DX: 4/30/09, 10/21/09 SCC on floor of mouth,
T1NOMO, T2N1M0
TX: 39 IMRT, 8 cisplatin 11/30/09
PET/CT: 11/03/09: Lymph node involvement
PEG/PORT: 11/09
TX end: 02/01/10
PET Scan: 04/05/10 clear
PEG Out: 06/21/10
Biopsy: 12/23/10: fibrosis
HBO: 01/04/11 - ORN
Baby girl born 11-30-12
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Joined: Jan 2009 Posts: 1,844 | breath, it's not cancer until they say it is. This forum is meant for venting, we are all used to this and what we are here are for.
Young Frack, SCC T4N2M0, Cisplatin,35+ rads,ND, RT Mandiblectomy w fibular free flap, facial paralysis, "He who has a "why" to live can bear with almost any "how"." -Nietzche "WARNING" PG-13 due to Sarcasm & WAY too much attitude, interact at your own risk.
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Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 3,082 | Angelia
It will be all right. Being afraid of a recurrence when my ear or my mouth hurt is something I went through hundreds of times (literally not figuratively) the first year after my TX and they were all false alarms. As long as both your scans and the ENT say you are clear, you will be fine. Just be sure to let your ENT and other doctors know that you are pregnant so that can be taken into account.
charm
Last edited by Charm2017; 09-18-2009 02:46 PM. Reason: typo
65 yr Old Frack
Stage IV BOT T3N2M0 HPV 16+
2007:72GY IMRT(40) 8 ERBITUX No PEG
2008:CANCER BACK Salvage Surgery
25GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Apaghia /G button
2012: CANCER BACK -left tonsilar fossa
40GY-CyberKnife(5) 3 Carboplatin
Passed away 4-29-13
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Joined: Mar 2009 Posts: 32 | I'm with Charm17....evry time I feel a twinge, an ache, or a pain anywhere in my mouth, my heart races. My thoughts and prayers are with you and, trust me, being scared to death is a feeling I continue to share. Guess it's natural in our situations...
John Retired US Government (DoD)
Age: 61
SCC/BOT discovered neck mass 11/08
Removed neck mass 09/01/09
Final Diagnosis after scoping on 02/08/09
Chemotherapy and Radiation: Paclitaxel and Carboplatin, 8 weeks of chemo (1X weekly) and daily radiation both sides of neck). First treatment 03/02/09
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Joined: Sep 2009 Posts: 229 | Big hugs headed your way~
Patty
08-10-09 Partial Glossectomy w/suprahyoid neck dissection
SCC T1NOMX Stage I | 46 years old
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 8,311 | Congrats on the baby and keep positive vibes going now.
David
Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Joined: May 2009 Posts: 1,412 | Thanks everyone. I do feel little better about all this now. I was talking to a nurse friend of mine. She had mentioned that it could be just all those lovely hormones causing the nerves to be more sensitive. I am going to choose to believe that there is nothing wrong until the Dr says there is. I may have to keep reminding myself that now that I will be bringing a new little one into this world.
Angelia
31 at Dx.
DX: 4/30/09, 10/21/09 SCC on floor of mouth,
T1NOMO, T2N1M0
TX: 39 IMRT, 8 cisplatin 11/30/09
PET/CT: 11/03/09: Lymph node involvement
PEG/PORT: 11/09
TX end: 02/01/10
PET Scan: 04/05/10 clear
PEG Out: 06/21/10
Biopsy: 12/23/10: fibrosis
HBO: 01/04/11 - ORN
Baby girl born 11-30-12
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Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 388 | Hi Angelia - What the nurse said makes a lot of sense - hormones all over the place would set you up for unnessary worry - just count on those clear scans. Congrats, too! : )
Husband: 3 SCC gum and cheek cancers 2002, 2005, 2006: surgery only. Scans clear after removal of small, well differentiated, non-invasive cancers. No radiation. 4th SCC lip diagnosed 4/13/07 - in situ, removed in biopsy. More lip removed 2/8/08 - dysplasia. 2 Biopsies 3/17/09 no cancer (lichenoids)
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 595 | Congats on #3 and just listen to the Doctors and enjoy the next 9 months or so. Have fun and stay in good health. Semper-Fi Bob
Bob age 57, non smoker,non drinker, ended treatment on 11 Nov 2007 and started back to work on 29 Nov 2007. Veterans Day 2012 the Battle was lowered, folded, Taps was played and the Flag buried as I am know a 5 year survivor. Semper-FI !!!
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