Tamara- I know exactly what you are going through and really can't offer too much advice other than to spend as much time as you can with Kyle, remembering the good times. It will be over soon and you will know that you did what you could to make his last days special. Unfortunately my husband passed after I had left for the evening. The aide that was with him told me that she thought he waited until I was gone. I had been there day and night just hoping i was there when the time came but he had his own agenda. I had only gone home becuase my 14 year old was home alone. Just know that his suffering WILL be over soon-that is the only thing you have right now. I will saying special prayers for you this evening.

Sue

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.