Just my opinion, but if you keep pushing yourself on her, that's good for you and apparently bad for her in terms of annoyances -- Just set an example by maintaining a good attitude and suppress the statements and lectures -- Find someone else to talk to and get it all off your chest (as you are doing here)without adding to her burdens -- Movie sounds like fun. And maybe some tearful chick-flick to flush some of this out of both your systems <g>.