Hi Amy- My thoughts and prayers are with your mom and your entire family. Don't let the doctors intimidate you. You might be young but you are certainly not stupid-don't let them treat you like that. I've been blown off by doctors myself and have learned to speak up if something doesn't seem right. If you don't "get" what they are saying make them explain things until you do.I know that medicine is not an exact science. My husband has a rare case where the primary cancer has shrunk but the metastasis to the lungs has increased. Go figure. Anyway, best wishes to you all, Sue


cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.