Minnie- Thanks so much for your inspirational words. This board has helped me come to terms with all this. Sometimes i think it takes more effort to be positive. The survivors who have responded give me so much hope. I think for all the horrors of this disease-it brings out the best in people.

cg to husband, 48 Stage 1V head and neck SCC. First surgery 9/07. Radiation and several rounds of chemo followed. Mets to chest and lungs. "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain." Went home to God on February 22, 2009.