I agree with Gary, Our bodies go into a survival mode. Sex is not a big part of that for the first two years. (I Hope) I am coming up on two years (July 14/03) and sex is still on the back burner. Just laying together watching a movie can be just as meaningful if not more. Lots of hugs and saying "I love You" is a powerful bonding phrase.

Best Wishes, Danny Boy

Daniel Bogan DX 7/16/03 Right tonsil,SCC T4NOMO. right side neck disection, IMRT Radiation x 33.

Recurrance in June 05 in right tonsil area. Now receiving palliative chemo (Erbitux) starting 3/9/06

Our good friend and loved member of the forum has passed away RIP Dannyboy 7-16-2006