Seeing Gary`s comment in Coping/Anger, on humor,our`s is pretty dark too.....I just got Packer that says Cemetery Dance on the back, and on the front Let the Dance Begin.....needless to say, if people want to stare, I like to give them something to stare at.........another good way to lift your spirits, at least for me, is to make a radical change in your looks.......I`ve gone from brunette to punk blonde, trying for the Billy Idol look........hey, it makes me feel great. I`ve learned through all this if you want to do something, just do it !!!!! Dee