Connie,
That is a wonderful way to look at things. I am gong to take it to heart. I too worry all the time about the future-what if Lee has gone thru all this for nothing, about our 6 year old son, on and on and on... But your words are comforting and you're right,what will be will be, and we need to live now and cherish what we have. I really will try. Thank you.
Doreen

Stage IV scc base of tongue/larynx
Total glossectomy/partial laryngectomy/radical neck dissection 4/05 followed by chemo and rad. Tonsillar Non-Hodgkin's lymphoma 1996(cured and not related)