DJS
Please don`t waste time beating yourself up,we as caregivers are not oncologists and cannot be expected to know everything, you are not alone. Now what matters is his comfort and care. If I had not found this forum my husband would not be as healthy as he is today.
Right here is where I found the BEST information and support. Thank goodness for Brian Hill. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Take care
Marica

Caregiver to husband Pete. SCC stage IV base of tongue. DX 4/03 finished treatment 7/03


Caregiver to husband Pete, Dx 4/03 SCC Base of Tongue Stage IV. Chemo /Rad no surgery. Treatment finished 8/03. Doing great!